Friday, March 31, 2017

10 More Reasons to Send a Handmade Greeting Card

I'm continuing on the journey as to why in our modern day of social media, texting and other forms of nonverbal, technologically driven communication, you should still send a handwritten note.  Here are 10 more reasons:

  1. To say, “Look at this gorgeous card I found.”
    • Don’t keep something that pretty to yourself.
  2. To congratulate someone on a new car.
    • Butter them up for when you inevitably ask to borrow it.
  3. To celebrate Thanksgiving.
    • No one sends “Happy Thanksgiving” cards. Be unique.
  4. To celebrate the Fourth of July.
    • If they’re American, it’s sort of a second birthday card.
  5. To congratulate someone on a promotion.
    • If appropriate, maybe include your résumé.
  6. To wish someone good luck on an upcoming surgery.
    • Not that you need luck or anything. You’re in very skilled, capable hands.
  7. To share a recipe.
    • Add one tablespoon of friendship …
  8. To wish someone a happy anniversary.
    • Sticking to milestone years is boring. “Happy 17th Wedding Anniversary” is unique.
  9. To wish someone a happy divorce.
    • Know your audience on this one.
  10. As a joke.
    • Sending your 45-year-old friend three “Happy Quinceañera” cards will get a laugh.

Sunday, March 26, 2017

Just Smile!

I receive these email bulletins from a site called Lifehack.  Today, I received this one:  110 Happiness Quotes That Will Make You Smile Instantly.  It's awesome to start your day by reading something happy!  No matter how badly you slept or whatever weight is on your mind, you can't help but smile at these. I'm sharing the link with you because I want you to smile too!

Check it out here:

Here's one of my favorites:

This is a good one and resonates with me. My goal is start my own handmade greeting card company.  I'm not rushing into it and spending a bunch of money I don't have; rather I'm bootstrapping it, as they say.  However, creating cards does set my soul on fire.  I love doing it!

What about you?  Which of the 110 quotes makes you smile?  Share in the comments below!

Monday, March 20, 2017

10 reasons to send a handwritten greeting card

Nowadays, it's very easy to become or feel unattached to those we love.  Texting has taken the place of phone calls and posting a picture on a social media site is a way of communicating with everyone in one swoop!  Make connections again with a handwritten greeting card.    In this post, we will explore numbers 1 through 10 of why you should send a handwritten card:

  1. To thank someone for something small.
    • Sincerity is a lost art. Practice often.
  2. To say “Happy graduation.”
    • Welcome to the real world.
  3. To say “Sad graduation.”
    • Welcome to the real world.
  4. To congratulate someone on getting their driver’s license.
    • No texting and driving. Always best to send a card.
  5. To celebrate a new year.
    • Let’s make this year better than the last. And then let’s do the same next year.
  6. To congratulate someone on getting a puppy.
    • They make edible cards, right?
  7. To congratulate someone on getting a kitten.
    • They have years of being ignored ahead of them, so why not give them a little attention now.
  8. To welcome a baby into the family.
    • In about 18 years they’ll have time to finally read your card.
  9. To “apologize” for not inviting someone to your wedding.
    • It’s tough. A little thoughtfulness now can save a lot of awkwardness later.
  10. To offer a random compliment.
    • Fact: 100% of people enjoy receiving compliments. Fact #2: Your hair looks great today.
 If you are off looking for a card, check out some I have for sale on E-Bay:

Love or Anniversary Card

Just to say Hi!

Creating cards is a passion for me - stay tuned while I add more or if you would like to buy directly, contact me at

It's not important where you get your card from, just do it!

Sunday, March 12, 2017

Will I ever catch up on my scrapbooking?

NO!  You won't.  It's that simple and that complex.  I think it's just how you view it.  Here's a few tips to make you feel a bit better about not being 'caught up':

  • Lower your expectations. The goal is to chronicle your life, not show off your ability to create some paper masterpiece.  In fact, I’d go so far as to say that too much enhancement is a distraction and a detriment.  So, for the sake of your gorgeous pictures AND your sanity, keep it simple.
  • Take fewer pictures.  Really.  Our kids are the most highly photographed generation in the history of the world.  And the more pictures you take, the more you have to sort through and edit.  Lately I’ve been intentionally taking fewer pictures, and it’s amazing how much easier it is to go through and pick out the ones I want to keep or add into an album.  Which is the perfect segue to #3…
  • Throw pictures away.  Yes, I know it feels wrong somehow, but if you’re not going to use ’em, TOSS ‘EM.  (Or, give ’em to your kids to "scrapbook".) There is no reason to keep extra pictures around, cluttering up your living space.  And with everything digital nowadays, you can always reprint it if you regret tossing it later.  And the fact is, you do NOT need to put every picture you print into your album.  When in doubt, leave it out.  You will probably never remember it.
  • Be selective.  This goes along with #3, but again, you don’t need 150 pictures of your daughter’s birthday party in your album.  You can keep them on your computer if you want to see them.  But in your album, try to keep each event to one or two pages.  It’s more enjoyable to thumb through an album when you have captured the highlights of each event.  No one wants to look at 10 pages of Christmas Day.  
  • Go digital!  If, like me, you want to flip pages of a book, you can even print out your digital masterpiece.  There are many online stores offering digital scrapbooks, that you can have one printed and then add your own embellishments to it!
I still need to catch up on several years, and I'll get to it - eventually.  I'm not going pressure myself into feeling like I need to have every single picture scrapbooked by the end of 2017. 

How about you?  Are you 'caught up'?  What tips and tricks do you have for our readers?  Share in the comments below!

Sunday, February 5, 2017

4089 and counting

It's Superbowl Sunday!  Just another reason for Americans to consume, consume and consume some more.  I'm not saying that I don't enjoy the game and the food, but do I need to buy balloons, party goods and special plates?  I think not.  The past several years have seen us host a party - lots of money spent on food, enjoying good times with our friends and then the biggie clean up the next day.  Most of the time I would take post-Superbowl Monday off because I had a messy house to straighten up.  Kind of crazy to sacrifice a PTO day to clean up after a party, right?

This year is different.  The hubs and I are going to stay in - just the two of us - make some special hamburgers (consisting of cooked bacon, shredded cheese and then topped with a cooked egg and avocado slices).  I might have a cocktail - I might not.  The hubs rode his bike 94 miles today so I don't expect him to last to half time, but he might surprise me as he is taking a little siesta while I write this.  I completed my first workout on my P90X3 DVDs today - a kick butt workout!  A simple Superbowl - I like it.

As I journey through this early retirement planning, the one chord that keeps striking with me is the word 'simple'.  I want a simple life.  As I look around our house, I can start to feel stress and angst.  It's a mess.  Not dirty - messy.  Both of us don't like to put things away and the hubs works from home, so it spills into other rooms instead of just the office.  There's a blog called 365 Less Things where this woman began decluttering one item a day for a whole year.  I think I will start today.  I looked at my desk and saw all these Bed, Bath & Beyond coupons sitting in one of the slots (it's a secretary desk).  I haven't shopped in that store since I don't know when.  If I shop nowadays, it's online.  If I need a BBB coupon, I can find it online.  Bye bye, BBB coupons!

I wonder what I will get rid of tomorrow..........

Saturday, February 4, 2017

4090 Days and counting

I have a dream and goal for retire when I hit 56 years old.  The idea came to me one day within the past 3 or 4 months.  My Dad retired at age 56 - he closed his business, sold the inventory, the land, our family house and moved us all to Florida.  I was 12 at the time and I really didn't know my Dad.  When I got up in the morning, he was gone to work and he could come home around 5:15 - 5:30 p.m., take a shower and the first time I would really see him would be at the dinner table.  By 7:00 p.m. he was asleep on the couch in our family room.  My Dad made interior and exterior iron railings.  Raw steel would come into his shop, and he would weld, grind, shape, form, paint (several coats) and install them.  By himself.  Five days a week.  To say he was tired at the end of the day was an understatement, which is why I never knew my Dad until he retired & moved us to Florida.

Now at the ripe age of 44 (and my Dad will turn 90 this year), I'm reflecting on my life and reading alot of blogs and re-evaluating my life.  Maybe it's a mid-life crisis.  Maybe I'm just waking up from the consumerist train.  Whatever it is, I want more out of my life than this train ride I'm on.

There are a ton of blogs out there about minimalism, frugality, simple living, early retirement, financial independence, etc.  I'm not trying to compete with them or do something different than they are.  I'm using this blog as documentation of my journey to get to age 56 and semi-retire, or totally retire, or became an entrepreneur or whatever I decide to do.  I do have 11 years, and that's a long time, but I'm curious to see what happens and how I will do it.  This blog is keeping me accountable.

Bits and pieces of our lives.